





The food is generally the biggest expense when it comes to a holiday meal gathering, but planning ahead will really pay off.
Be sure to check out Frugal Friday and Thanksgiving on a Budget for more ideas.


It is hard to believe that the last Goal Update I did was the beginning of June--for the month of May. I thought it was going to work out great to have more time between the updates, but it isn't. I've had a hard time staying on track and remembering where I'm at.
June and July were both very busy months for us--July moreso than June. Not only is there the 4th of July (which comes with a big celebration at our church that we help organize) but there is also my birthday, our anniversary and canning season is usually in full force. Add that all in with a dash of VBS, and a few church trips here and there and you've got my month of July. Pure and utter craziness and chaos. And a recipe for a budget disaster. Hmmph.
There..I admitted it. July (as far as our finances go) pretty much stunk.
Self: I did so good exercising through the month of June and parts of July. I loved The Shred, and I still do, but my routine has gotten all crazy and I've had a hard time regaining control of it again. The first thing that gave: exercising, and I can tell. I'm hoping to get control again now that we are regaining our normalcy.
Home: We are still trying to figure out whether or not we are doing our major remodel project this year or not. Because of this, all of the painting and inside renovating has been put at a standstill. The suspense is killing me, but I keep reminding myself that it is all in God's timing..not my own.
So how have you been doing on your goals?? Fill me in--it's been awhile!

It's a new month and time to check in and see how we've all be doing on our 2009 goals. I don't know about you, but this has really helped me stay accountable to myself and to everyone else for that matter. Although things aren't going exactly as I had planned, we are still taking steps forward.
Here is how we are doing so far:
Everything else is going really well! 2009 has been a really productive, memorable year so far--and I'm anxious to see what the rest of it brings. From here on out, the 2009 Goal Updates are going to start being bi-monthly instead of monthly, hopefully that way I will have more to report.
How are you doing?
This post was originally posted on February 3rd, but it bears repeating as it is my Top Frugal Tip. The number one question I am asked is how I keep my grocery budget as low as I do. Implementing these following 8 tips helped me gain control of my grocery budget, which has given us more money for our debt snowball.
Be sure to check out Works For Me Wednesday: Frugal Tip Edition.
Original post follows:
On the last installment of Finding Freedom, I went over Managing Expenses and different ways that you can cut your costs.
One of the hardest, yet easiest areas, is grocery shopping. I do consider it a negotiable, because although you have to eat, you can almost always cut your spending in the "grocery department" and still not starve!
Here are my Top 8 Ways to Cut your Grocery Expenses
I encourage you to try all of these. You do not necessarily have to do them all at once, you can ease in if you desire. But, I do think it is important to do all of them at some point to maximize your savings.
I would love to hear your experiences in cutting grocery costs. Your successes and failures. Hopefully your successes far out weigh the failures! Feel free to chat away in the comment section.

Goodbye April. I think I may miss you, sorta. Not a huge fan of all the rain and all that jazz, but all in all you were pretty good to me.
It's time for another update on my 2009 Goals. Again, if you haven't made goals yet, it's never too late. I encourage you to set a couple for yourself and be sure to come back and share with us. Consistently looking at my list has definitely kept me on track this year, and I'm loving it. Just because I've been staying on track, though, doesn't me that I've been necessarilly succeeding in all areas.
As will everything in this Earthly life, nothing is for certain. I set out with big intentions for 2009, and I hope to make it my best year yet. Frankly, that is all that I can do.
With that being said, I've encountered some bumps in my plan, mostly in terms of my financial goals. I do not like bumps, generally, but I'm taking these bumps as they come. Thank God for that. Goes to show that all the prayers I've put in for help with my patience and my issues with perfectionism and control have not gone unanswered. I must continue to remind myself that although I've set these goals, everything happens in God's time--not my own.
Let's take a look back at April:
So, how are you doing on your 2009 Goals? If you haven't made your goals yet--hop in now and let us know what you are striving for.
*Don't forget to check out the rules to linking up, you can find them on this post.
Be sure to check out other goal updates over at Money Saving Mom.

Now is your time to share.
How are you doing on your 2009 Goals? If you haven't made your goals yet--hop in now and let us know what you are striving for.
This post is linked to Money Saving Mom.
This topic is very near and dear to me for numerous different reasons. It all actually started when I started taking a closer look at our grocery budget and seeing where I could trim. From there I realized that basically everything that I relied on the grocery store for (which was everything), I could make at home. Yes, you can make almost anything at home. That does not necessarily mean that it is economical to do so, but with a little bit of time, research, and maybe some added umph--you can make anything.
This newfound discovery got my wheels really turning. Why was I buying all these things from the store and giving someone that I didn't even know the authority to play in my food, or add whatever they wanted to into my cleaners. Granted, these companies are regulated by the government, but that just wasn't and isn't enough for me. Especially when you take into account how many food recalls we have had and also knowing that certain ingredients have a potential for causing cancer.
I would have to say that yes, making my own has definitely saved us money! For a lot of the recipes that I post and for all of my menu plans, I try to post the cost breakdown so you can see that making food from scratch is easy, frugal and delish. Doing the cost breakdown has really gotten me to see just how much money it has saved us.
Currently the only other thing that I make from scratch, other than food items, is my laundry soap and fabric softener. I cannot even begin to tell you how much this has saved us. There are no additives, and no perfumes in the laundry detergent. The fabric softener, because I use conditioner, does have perfumes and such--but I've been using diluted vinegar with added essential oil with success. This method does not have the perfumes/additives. I do not make any other cleaners right now, because I still have a big stock of the commercial things from couponing. But, isopropyl alcohol and vinegar (not together) should be your best friend.
Of course there are other things, like curtains, clothing, toys, gifts, etc that you can make at home. All of which, in my opinion, fall right along the same lines.
Doing these things has granted me great amounts of freedom. I hardly rely on the grocery store for anything. I have the base ingredients at any given time to make almost anything you can dream up. That in conjunction with couponing, I rarely need anything other than basics, which grants me the freedom and reliance from the grocery store. Not being there so much saves me money on impulse buys, which is helping me find financial freedom. We're all human! :)
And on top of all of that, yes, I can notice a difference in our health. I feel better, and I have slimmed down a bit. Although, I'm on a mad mission to lose more!
Let me add here, that I was never one to be any form of domestic. No way, no how. Didn't want any part of it whatsoever. Money was made to be spent, and the stores were created for you to spend it. Thankfully my views have changed! I still have very little patience and desire fast results. I say all this so that you know that "making your own" isn't always time consuming (which is what I always thought). Sure, the first time you do it, it may take a while, but once you get it down, it will be second nature. Kind of like tying your shoes. When you first learn, it takes about 12 days to tie both shoes. Now, I'll bet that you can tie them in your sleep with your hands tied behind your back.
I'm no domestic powerhouse, or professional homemaker, but I strongly encourage you to attempt to make your own "something". If you are already making something, make more "somethings", venture out and see how many things you really can make. It's a great feeling knowing that my family depends on my hands, and not someone elses.
If you have any questions about where to start, how to begin, or anything at all--I'm more than happy to help!
Now is the time for you to share. Please remember to link to your post and not your homepage. And please keep it on topic--I don't like deleting links!
What is your take on Making at Home vs. Store Bought?

As part of our journey to lead a more frugal and simple life, I have found great pleasure in making many things for my home. This includes curtains, food, cleaners, gifts, and our very own garden..amongst other things.
As part of the Finding Freedom Series, I would love to hear how you have found freedom with making things for your home and family.
Those are just a few ideas to get your wheels turning, feel free to address whatever you like. Be sure to come back Friday with your post and link up with us!
Also here is what you can expect in the next couple of weeks for Finding Freedom Friday:
I'm open to any and all suggestions that you may have for upcoming Finding Freedom Friday topics. You can leave a comment with your suggestions, or you can drop me an email (phendricks @ centurytel.net).
I'm looking forward to all your responses!

You can read more about our journey here.
Rules to Linking Up:

Come back on Friday with the link to your post and post it with Mr. Linky.
How was February for you? How are you doing on the goals you set for 2009?
One pair of women's garden gloves as well as a carrot seeds, Roma tomato seeds, and burpless cucumber seeds. Maybe this will give you the incentive to get started on your very own garden! The winner will be chosen at random from all the entries on Mr. Linky.




(3) loaves Sara Lee Honey Wheat Bread $3
Sara Lee Bagels $1
Sara Lee Wheat Hamburger Buns .67
TOTAL: I've lost the receipt but I know it was right around $5
GRAND TOTAL: $117.44!
This brings my January total to $248.52. $1.48 UNDER budget!!!!!! I still have a $5 RR, and I get $15 worth of coupons for my Walgreen's purchase.
This makes me happy, not only to come in under budget, but to know that I was still able to stock up on meat, and some veggies! This will make next week a little easier as well.
To see how others have done with their grocery shopping, go on over to Grocery Cart Challenge.

2. Personal
3. Charitable Gifts. Even when paying down your debt, it is still a good idea to give. Our money is actaully His money, He has just entrusted us with it.
4. Savings.
5. Housing.
6. Transportation.
7. Utilities.
8. Food.
9. Debts.
Total up all of the categories. Next to each item I write the amount, and at the bottom of each category I total it all up and circle that amount. Then I go back and add up all the circled amounts, and write that at the bottom. Next to the final tally, I write my income. If your income is less than your outgoing go back and shave some off of the negotaibles. If your income is more than your outgoing, jump up and dance! Then, add a number 10 to your list.
10. Snowball. This is my favorite part!!! Your income and your outgo should be the exact same number, every month. Do not let any money be unassigned, you are setting yourself up for failure. The only way of knowing exactly where your money is going, is by you telling it where to go. So do it! :) If you end up eliminating a debt or a bill, that goes here.
We make a new Cash Flow plan every month to couple of months. I do this in my budget notebook so that I can go back and see where we have been. This also comes in handy for unpredictable incomes, because you can average the last couple of months of income using your cash flow plan. It will take some practice to get your numbers where they work for you, but once you do, it will be so easy.
I know that was a lot to take in! Your Cash Flow plan is one of your best tools in eliminating your debt, and acheiving your financial goals. I like having the constant reminder of what I'm doing so that I don't lose track and fall off course.
Over the weekend, I encourage you to make your Cash Flow Plan, making sure that the bottom line is ZERO. Take a look at your non-negotiables. Is there anyway that you can cut them? Be creative, and see how low you an make those numbers so that you can grow your snowball.
Come back Monday and let us all know how you did. We are all in this together! :)
P.S. If you have a question or need any help, feel free to shoot me an email!
